Getting a quick divorce in Virginia depends on your capacity for patience and your definition of quick – there's no such thing, especially without your spouse's cooperation and if you don't want to cast blame.
Although there are things you can do to speed up the process a little after you file, waiting to file could take a long time if your spouse has done nothing wrong to end the marriage.
Dating might be adultery before a divorce is final -- but it might not be.
The significance of committing adultery also varies from state to state.
If a spouse commits adultery prior to the beginning of the separation, it affects issues of alimony.If a married but separated man takes a woman out for dinner, but drops her off at the end of the evening and goes his own way, it’s generally not adultery. If he dates that woman repeatedly and they begin spending time together in each other’s homes, this can open the door for his spouse to claim the affair is adulterous because sexual contact might be taking place.In some states, adultery is a crime, although it is rarely prosecuted.If the adultery occurs after the date of separation, it does not.Under the terms of the Uniform Code of Military Justice, adultery is a criminal offense.